WHAT IS SHYNESS ?

The person who feels uncomfortable in presence of others is known as a Shy Boy or Shy Girl. The Shy Guy avoids talking to others which leaves negative impact on their career. Shyness acts as a barrier to a successful relations, may it be with clients, employers or employees.

Overcoming Shyness is an important step towards a developed personality. Success can be achieved only by overcoming such hindrances. Below are the tips for overcoming shyness.

TIPS FOR OVERCOMING SHYNESS:

Introspection is very Important: It is very important to know one's own weaknesses and strengths. We generally find faults in other and never see our shortcomings. The persons who introspect themselves readily accept the change.

Identify your Weakness: When you become aware of your shyness, then it becomes easy to overcome it. Then you wont like to be left behind due to this negative characteristic.

Get Ready to Change Yourself: Human nature resists change. First of all, prepare yourself to get rid of shyness, because only then you can make sincere efforts.

Your Behavior reflects your personality: Its your behavior which shows whether you are an introvert or extrovert. The people who appear outgoing and confident in building relations with others are more acceptable in the society.

You Need Not Be a very Knowledgeable Person: To be a good conversationalist, its not necessary to have too much knowledge. The only thing you have to do is to take interest in other people and be a good listener.

Make other People Feel Great: When you will listen to others, and take interest in them, you will be surprised to see the positive response that people give to you.

Focus on Others' Interests: Don't talk much about yourself. Focus less on your discomfort, and more on others. This will make you feel great in others' eyes as well as in your own.

Be Inquisitive: To be open with others, its very important to be inquisitive. Ask Questions about their Job, their Hobbies, their Family, etc. Avoid asking questions that can be answered with Yes/No or one word.

Don't Choose Controversial Topics: Avoid discussing topics which can be controversial. Try to discuss neutral topics to avoid conflict.

Avoid Talking Business Only: Don't Stick to one topic only. You can discuss different topics like food, weather, sports, entertainment, and some current topics also.

The More You Get to Know Others, the More Comfortable You will Feel: The more you communicate with others, the more ease you will feel while building relations. You will feel free from over-shyness.

Be a Good Listener: You don't really have to change so much to overcome shyness. You just have to be a good listener and make others feel important.

 
POINTS TO REMEMBER WHILE BUILDING RELATIONS:

1. Make an Eye Contact while Taking. It shows your confidence.
2. Shake hands firmly to remove your inhibition.
3. Person's name is the sweetest word in this world. So, repeat his or her name to make him/her feel more comfortable with you.
4. Smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. It makes you look more confident.

Just to get rid of shyness, you need to act as confident and smart guy. Then is will become your habit and you will be more confident, more social, and more acceptable person in your career and in your life.